Praying for our husbands

Last month I began reading "Power of a Praying Wife" and it is beginning to change the way I look at marriage. It is so easy to blame the husband for all the wrong things that happen in our lives. What i have realized is as much as I pray for what he does I can not change my husband. I cannot pray for him to love laundry or pray for him to want to pay the bills instead of me. God works through us, and our relationship with our husbands is not defined by our relationship with our husband but rather our relationship with God. God loves me enough to take care of me and in his wonderful way show me that I need to pray to change me, and through that he will make my marriage wonderful and so much more than I could ever do on my own. I am praying that I become less "bossy" and find other ways to tell my husband things that need to be done on a daily basis. I am excited to see what God begins to do in my marriage as I begin to pray for my husbands life, work, emotions, finances, free time, and his Wife! What do you think??